I got a disturbing phone call today from the hospital today.
They were looking to see if I had received the birth certificate with the registration numbers. I said no I hadn't.
She then let me know that they are being released TODAY... and that the AP's have been there awhile.
I thought that we had agreed to keep everyone UPDATED. Guess I was wrong.
I signed over my rights a few days ago, and have over 3 weeks left until my rights are actually terminated. I thought they'd at least keep me in the loop until then. Maybe I would have gotten a phone call once they got HOME. Maybe not even then.
I called backed, since I was so incredibly shocked and hurt that I couldn't even remember to ask over the phone when I spoke to the social worker.
They now weight A = 5 lbs 11 ounces and B = 5 lbs 9 oz. They have both gained exactly 2 lbs, tomorrow they will be exactly 6 weeks old.
I'm not sure if I'll actually have any other updates about them, this happens a lot in surrogacy, where the parents "grab and run" and then the surrogate ends up left out in the cold if you will. Not entirely surprised though, I tried to set myself for this happening, but I guess you're never really prepared for something like this to happen.
Would have liked for it to NOT be a stranger who let me know though.
I have my 6 week post partum appointment on the 10th, and will update afterward though.
They were looking to see if I had received the birth certificate with the registration numbers. I said no I hadn't.
She then let me know that they are being released TODAY... and that the AP's have been there awhile.
I thought that we had agreed to keep everyone UPDATED. Guess I was wrong.
I signed over my rights a few days ago, and have over 3 weeks left until my rights are actually terminated. I thought they'd at least keep me in the loop until then. Maybe I would have gotten a phone call once they got HOME. Maybe not even then.
I called backed, since I was so incredibly shocked and hurt that I couldn't even remember to ask over the phone when I spoke to the social worker.
They now weight A = 5 lbs 11 ounces and B = 5 lbs 9 oz. They have both gained exactly 2 lbs, tomorrow they will be exactly 6 weeks old.
I'm not sure if I'll actually have any other updates about them, this happens a lot in surrogacy, where the parents "grab and run" and then the surrogate ends up left out in the cold if you will. Not entirely surprised though, I tried to set myself for this happening, but I guess you're never really prepared for something like this to happen.
Would have liked for it to NOT be a stranger who let me know though.
I have my 6 week post partum appointment on the 10th, and will update afterward though.
